The Empowered Woman

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Your Resentment Impedes Your Receptivity

When the feminine’s pain & resentment of the ways in which the masculine has wounded her (ancestrally, collectively, & individually) is not integrated, she stands in her own way of getting met by him in the ways she most deeply longs for.

This is why I feel deep concern around the SJW/liberal movements which feed energy into the vortexes of collective trauma experienced by the feminine, at the hands of the masculine.⁠

Yes, this pain needs to be acknowledged.⁠

But again (I spoke to this during BLM as well), the goal of true healing & integration is NOT to remain in the victim role forever.⁠

The victim is literally STAGE ONE of healing.⁠

Feeling the pain. Feeling your victimization.⁠

SJW movements, in their attempt to give a voice to victims, actually insist upon keeping these groups of people AS VICTIMS.⁠

Because they garner momentum around the necessity that the OUTSIDE WORLD changes, so that these people can be empowered.⁠

“I can’t be empowered unless YOU change” - said no truly sovereign & empowered individual, ever.⁠

𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬, 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐲 𝐦𝐞𝐧, 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐬.⁠

Because you cannot be receptive to the masculine’s adoration & attention if you fundamentally resent it, because of how it reminds you of your trauma.⁠

So while women parade around trying to bring awareness to their trauma (again - the victim stage is important, it’s just not the final goal), ⁠

They reinforce the barriers to being met in the ways they most deeply desire.⁠

Only when we accept our pain as our own, ⁠

That it is OUR responsibility to heal,⁠

Can we become receptive to that which we truly desire.⁠