How Do You Use a Rose Quartz Massage Wand?

Self-pleasure is a practice that supports women to love themselves from the inside out. By taking the time to relax and enjoy your own pleasure, particularly by offering pleasure to yourself, you communicate to yourself that you are worthy of receiving pleasure and feeling good.

Through self-touch, it is possible to heal sexual shame and awaken new pathways of pleasure in the body simply by being open to exploring your body in non-habitual ways. In addition, prioritizing pleasure in your life can dramatically reduce stress and cortisol levels, thereby enhancing overall wellbeing and slowing the aging process of the body.

In addition to the holistic benefits of self-pleasure for women of all ages, self-pleasuring is essential for women to maintain optimal health and sexual fulfillment as they age.

As women age, the body experiences changes that can affect one’s sex life. While some of these changes can be experienced as positive & desirable, other changes can make sex less desirable. 

One consequence of aging is that the vagina can become shorter and narrower. In addition, the supply of estrogen for adult women will lessen as they age, which causes thinning of the vaginal walls. This can cause decreased natural vaginal lubrication, which leads to vaginal dryness. 

Stimulating the vagina & sexual energy via self-pleasure both internally and externally (i.e. the clitoris and vulva), can help alleviate vaginal stagnancy and dryness. It also supports women to feel sexually aroused more often by supporting a more relaxed and receptive nervous system state. Finally, self-pleasure is a satisfying alternative to sexual intercourse, especially for women who do not have an active sexual partner. In summary, self-pleasure is essential for experiencing fulfillment within oneself and within a romantic or sexual partnership.

What is Rose Quartz Massage Wand?

The Rose Quartz massage wand is more than just a tool for helping women to masturbate. It is a wand made from Rose Quartz crystal that evokes a deep sense of devotion and self-love. By using it as a dildo, women can experience the healing benefits and art of slow pleasure. 

It is believed that the Rose Quartz crystal is the stone of self-love and acceptance. Aside from supporting a woman’s sensual confidence, Rose Quartz also provides health benefits such as strengthening the circulatory system, purifying our bodily fluids, and helping release emotions and heartache.

How Do You Use a Rose Quartz Massage Wand?

A crystal massage wand supports you to have an enjoyable and connected self-pleasure experience. It supports the body to feel juicy & open as you experience deeper pleasure in a more self-honouring and devoted manner. Through the use of a massage wand, countless women report experiencing a renewed connection to their sensuality and femininity.

Below we have listed some common ways to use the Rose Quartz massage wand in your self-love practice. 

-Acquainting your body with the wand

Firstly, it is essential to consciously connect with your crystal pleasure wand. Gently trace the crystal wand along your body, starting from your cheeks, chin, and mouth, behind your ears down to your neck. This will help rejuvenate and charge your body with positivity. Next, massage the wand along your inner thighs and belly. To add even more pleasure to this process, you can experiment with the wand’s temperature by running your wand under hot or cold water first.

To set the scene for intimacy with yourself, hold your wand and place it in on top of your heart while lying down, and visualize your desires or self-loving intentions to help arouse you even further.

-Inserting the wand into your yoni

Once your body is feeling open & aroused, and your yoni is naturally lubricated, slowly insert your massage wand inside your vagina while visualizing your desires & intentions. Gently move your wand in and out of your vagina and feel the subtle sensations. You can also use the crystal wand to stimulate your g-spot or cervix specifically for added pleasure. It is best to use a curved wand for g-spot stimulation. Our Rose Quartz Amrita Wand™ is ideal for this.

-Involving the clitoris

While holding or slowly moving the wand inside your yoni, stimulate your clitoris using a circular motion (or whichever style of stimulation feels pleasurable). By stimulating the clitoris while also stimulating new pleasure pathways inside your yoni, your body will begin to associate the new sensations with pleasure, thereby enhancing your orgasmic potential.

Cleaning and cleansing the wand

Before and after using a crystal wand, clean the wand with hot water (NOT boiling water) and wash it using a mild natural soap to remove bacteria. 

To energetically cleanse the wand, place it in salt water (i.e. from the ocean) or under the light of a full-moon to remove negative energy. This resets the crystal’s natural earthly energy.

Ensure that you store it in a sacred place and avoid dropping the wand because it can break easily.

The Rose Quartz massage wand comes with many sexual, relational, and health benefits. It supports self-love, invokes self-trust and self-worth.