Friction vs. Attunement in Lovemaking
Friction is not the initiator of orgasmic opening. β
π¨πππππππππ is. β β
The greatest determinant of cervical pleasure & orgasm is not WHAT he touches, but HOW he touches. β β
The quality of presence that he brings to my cervix is what brings me to tears & ecstasy. β β
The cock needs to be CONSCIOUS. β β
He needs to actually EMBODY his cock. β β
For my yoni, there is no other way. β β
If the man is not cock-embodied, she simply isn't interested. β β
There is just too much subtlety that she feels... β β
And if he is not attuned to that subtlety within himself, he cannot be attuned to it within me. β β
I like cock that COMMUNICATES with my yoni. β β
Yes - your genitals are communicating with each other on a profoundly deep level. β β
This is why I so often speak about the intelligence of your genitals. β β
The intelligence of a soft cock, or a yoni who does not want to open. β β
These are not "defective" bodily responses - they are expressions of what is true in the moment. β β
This is why you will never see me stimulating a man with the sole intention of "getting him hard" β β
When we begin attuning to subtlety, orgasmic pleasure is accessible through stillness, β β
Where friction can serve to ENHANCE connection but it is not the CAUSE of it π