Friction is not the initiator of orgasmic opening. ⁠

𝑨𝒕𝒕𝒖𝒏𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 is. ⁠ ⁠

The greatest determinant of cervical pleasure & orgasm is not WHAT he touches, but HOW he touches. ⁠ ⁠

The quality of presence that he brings to my cervix is what brings me to tears & ecstasy. ⁠ ⁠

The cock needs to be CONSCIOUS. ⁠ ⁠

He needs to actually EMBODY his cock. ⁠ ⁠

For my yoni, there is no other way. ⁠ ⁠

If the man is not cock-embodied, she simply isn't interested. ⁠ ⁠

There is just too much subtlety that she feels... ⁠ ⁠

And if he is not attuned to that subtlety within himself, he cannot be attuned to it within me. ⁠ ⁠

I like cock that COMMUNICATES with my yoni. ⁠ ⁠

Yes - your genitals are communicating with each other on a profoundly deep level. ⁠ ⁠

This is why I so often speak about the intelligence of your genitals. ⁠ ⁠

The intelligence of a soft cock, or a yoni who does not want to open. ⁠ ⁠

These are not "defective" bodily responses - they are expressions of what is true in the moment. ⁠ ⁠

This is why you will never see me stimulating a man with the sole intention of "getting him hard" ⁠ ⁠

When we begin attuning to subtlety, orgasmic pleasure is accessible through stillness, ⁠ ⁠

Where friction can serve to ENHANCE connection but it is not the CAUSE of it 💛