How to Teach Without Teaching

 

Whenever I publish a post on the topic of how men can better understand female sexuality, women cheer! ⁠

They want men to understand this info. ⁠

Like, YESTERDAY! 💦 ⁠

And yes you can communicate a deeper understanding of sexual union to men by simply telling them. ⁠

But women, also know that when you EMBODY this wisdom yourself, men and the entire collective consciousness learn it through TRANSMISSION. ⁠

When you know the depth & sacredness of your body and sexuality, you don’t need to shout it from the rooftops. ⁠

Your consciousness communicates it through everything you do. How you walk, talk, and BE. ⁠

The first stage of empowerment where we feel the pain, anger, & rage —> and blame the outside world for our trauma… ⁠

That is necessary. ⁠

We can’t bypass this stage until we are ready. The pain needs to be felt within us of the times we did not feel honoured, seen, met, etc. ⁠

But it’s not the end goal. ⁠

The “end goal” (though I don’t love describing it this way) is to find ourselves in a place where we are self-responsible for determining who we engage with sexually, and not. ⁠

This discernment emerges from the self-honouring that comes from within. ⁠

To gain a sense for how you can EMBODY the transmission of a woman who accepts nothing less than feeling utterly met & honoured in her sexual experience… ⁠

Is to recognize how it FEELS in your body to uphold & receive this. ⁠

When you imagine being met to the full depth of your desires, how does that FEEL in your body. ⁠

When you imagine being honoured by a man in his full conscious power & presence, how does that FEEL in your body. ⁠

Embody that feeling. ⁠

This is how we “teach” without teaching ❤️ ⁠