Unmotivated to Self-Pleasure?
When you expect self-pleasure to look a certain way, it makes sense that you don't feel motivated to do it.
This post is for those of you who are on a path of conscious sexuality, and have found that self-pleasure sometimes (or often) feels like another "should" in your life...
Self-pleasure doesn't need to mean penetrating yourself.
Or even bringing yourself to orgasm.
It doesn't need to mean using a dildo.
Or moaning in ecstasy...
Of course it can be all of these things.
But it doesn't need to be.
Self-pleasure is simply about prioritizing what feels PLEASURABLE to you, in this moment.
It's choosing pleasure, in any form.
In my experience, it's the conscious ORIENTATION towards pleasure that creates the shift in my life.
This shift in orientation has a cascade effect,
Of demonstrating to myself that-
I am worthy
I am enough
I deserve pleasure & to feel good
And I deserve to ENJOY my body & my life.
As soon as self-pleasure stops reminding you of these things, you might be doing it "wrong" 😜
Let self-pleasure be a permission slip. Not another thing on your to-do list.