𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐈'𝐦 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐜𝐤 ⁠
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When two people come together, there is a field of information that forms between them. ⁠
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This means that there is 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 occurring between the two bodies way before physical contact takes place. ⁠
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And although our culture places heavy emphasis on male sexual performance and the ability to get hard - and stay hard - on command, ⁠
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His cock does not exist in a vacuum. ⁠
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It is RESPONDING to the field between both of you. ⁠
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So while men have been led to believe it's on them to maintain an erection, ⁠
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Or while women are taking it personally if her man can't get hard, ⁠
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We're missing the point altogether. ⁠
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It's no one's "fault" --> because a closed yoni or a soft cock is simply a reflection of what's in the collective field between both people. ⁠
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In my experience, when his cock is not erect despite mutual arousal, 100% of the time my yoni is actually not a full yes for penetration in that moment either. ⁠
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MEANING: his cock is responding to the field accurately! ⁠
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Conscious cock >> EMBODIED cock >> is intelligent. ⁠
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And unfortunately when men are not encouraged to trust their cock, they are being encouraged to mistrust the truthful expression of THEIR body, ⁠
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Which means they are also inclined to mistrust the truth of HER body. ⁠
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Women - we all know how important it is to be able to TRUST that a man will not enter us too early/quickly... that he is ATTUNED to our body's level of openness... ⁠
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Men - your cock is a BAROMETER for this 😊 ⁠
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--> and the more attuned you are to the intelligence of your cock, the more attuned you can be to her.