Are You Entitled to a Great Man?
There is an air of ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐น๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ that many women hold around receiving a certain kind of love... โ โ
(I am also speaking to a previous version of myself ๐คช) โ โ
A kind of entitlement around receiving a man into their life who will show up a certain way. โ โ
This kind of entitlement actually repels the masculine. โ โ
Because you are holding an ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, rather than offering an ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป. โ โ
This entitlement is the endless projection of the father wound. โ โ
Where your wounding creates a demand for men to provide the quality of presence you did not receive as a child. โ โ
Only when I met my ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป of not being met by the external masculine in the way I needed as a child, did I become ๐ต๐๐บ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐ฑ enough to attract what Iโve desired in a romantic lover. โ โ โ โ
Because, โ โ
It is the responsibility of our own INNER masculine to be ever-present. โ โ
When we recognize this, we receive the external masculineโs presence as a gift that enhances our life... โ โ
Rather than something we โdeserveโ or are entitled to as a baseline. โ โ
As a child, yes you were entitled to something and like many, you may not have received it. You DID need a certain quality of presence from your father & you SHOULD have received it. โ โ โ โ
But as an adult, you'll receive a his presence when you heal your resentment around him NOT being there in the way you once needed - and instead accept responsibility for offering this presence to yourself โค๏ธ โ โ โ โ
The outer masculine meets us at the level of consciousness of our inner masculine. โ โ