Feminine Entitlement Masquerading as Self-Worth

There is a difference between upholding one’s desires & standards for how we desire to be met by the masculine,

versus entitlement.

Alison Armstrong was the first woman to really “nail” me with the recognition of how entrenched I am (and we, collectively, are) in patterns that emasculate & disrespect men.

I have a deep interest in this unravelling, and thus I’ve recently begun mentorship with Gillian Pothier as well.

Yes, I am embodied in my self-worth.

AND - the places of wounding, grief, abandonment, & betrayal that I have yet to MEET in myself are also veiled in protective layers of entitlement which allow me to expect of + dismiss men,

in place of taking FULL responsibility for existing in my own ecstatic feminine flow & radiance.

And as these layers of disrespect & emasculation are highlighted, I am left with…

MEETING MY OWN FEMININE PAIN.

It is extreme, actually.

The ways in which we have castrated the masculine in order to stay "SAFE."

And the ways in which we expect him to show up for us, so that we don’t have to take full responsibility for our own feminine pain.

We have been led to believe that the wild, untamed masculine cannot be trusted & is unsafe.⁠ ⁠

But the opposite is true.⁠ ⁠

The masculine becomes unsafe to us when we DEPRIVE him of what he needs to share his gifts.⁠ ⁠ Trust. Respect. Appreciation.⁠ ⁠

When he is given these things, a healthy masculine man wants nothing more than to provide safety to the feminine heart.⁠ ⁠

One of the great seeings my mentor Gillian recently supported me to have, is that the masculine is (of course) intended to serve via his penetration in the world.

And the places where we leave no ROOM for him to penetrate, is a form of disrespecting the masculine.

The lack of feminine RECEPTIVITY to this penetration, fuelled by a lack of understanding the masculine’s divine mission, leads to a way of existing in which we continuously expect the masculine to OVERCOME & prove himself rather than allowing him the SPACE to penetrate us & life itself.

This is not about encouraging a lack of boundaries or respecting oneself,

It is about seeing the ways we (the feminine) actually prevent men from meeting us & serving us in their full divine capacity.

And how our disrespect of the masculine is simultaneously disrespect of OURSELVES.

The places we remain in projection & frustration at the nature of masculinity are, at the root, the places we have yet to meet in ourselves and be HUMBLED by.

This humbling coincides with the ALLOWING of being met & penetrated by the masculine to the extent that the innately erotic feminine nature desires.

The early process of unravelling patterns of emasculation is present & integrated within my teachings inside The Art of Cock Worship Online Course.