Growing Capacity to Be With Your Feminine Longing

The feminine longing to be met deeply in the heart is infinite.⁠

The pain of NOT being met by the masculine is excruciating.⁠

And as a feminine-essenced being you are always longing to be met deeper & deeper…⁠

But as long as you make it HIS (or another person’s) responsibility to meet you, you are giving away your power.⁠

Your power to lead as the feminine by inviting the masculine into love is hugely reliant on your GROWING CAPACITY to be with yourself in the pain of not being met.⁠

Can you let the pain crack you open?⁠

Surrender to it.⁠

Open to it, again and again.⁠

Release your need to solve it.⁠

It can’t ever be solved.⁠

And you don’t need to feel this pain all at once.⁠

Take a sip, feel the heartbreak.⁠

And then broaden your attention & bring your system back to safety.⁠

Through this pendulation, your capacity grows to meet YOURSELF.⁠

More and more deeply.⁠

With this capacity, you can CLEANLY invite the masculine in to meet you, because you trust yourself.⁠

You know that whether he meets you or not, you can be with the heartbreak.⁠

Ironically it is then more likely that the masculine WILL meet you deeply, because he will not feel any manipulative “hooks” that the junior feminine often uses to feel met.