Why Force Gets You Less of What You Want
Using force to get what you want is fundamentally repulsive at an energetic level.
When you are resorting to FORCING your reality to be a certain way, you can be sure that your state is ABSENT of:
TRUST
CONNECTION
ATTUNEMENT
SAFETY
SUPPORT
SURRENDER
𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬.
You simply cannot be an embodiment of these things WHILE forcing life to be a certain way.
When we resort to forcing life, we actually get so much LESS of what we want.
On the contrary —> when we make trust, connection, attunement, safety, support, & surrender our highest priority, the universe GIVES US what we need.
We become energetically ATTRACTIVE.
The masculine in all of us takes action, yes.
But taking action in a forceful way is NOT an expression of the healthy masculine.
When FORCEFUL action occurs, it is void of connection to the feminine - to life force itself.
The 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆 takes action from deep connection to the feminine.
He LISTENS to how the feminine is asking him to act.
These energetics are at play in each of us as individuals as we move through life.
And they are at play in relationship.
A man who leads the relationship while being disconnected (i.e. not present to himself & his woman) is leading with FORCE.
Thus, not only does he lose the feminine’s trust, he loses the support of the universe.
Life will become harder & harder for him.
Because he is working against universal law.
The deeper I come into trust & connection with myself & life, the more the things I need show up in the exact moments I need them.
(I literally experienced this TWICE yesterday, where both times I suddenly needed a toilet in two random locations and there were portapotties right beside me 😂)
SHE WANTS to give you what you need. She even wants to give you what you desire.
Because when you are in connection to HER, your desires are divinely inspired, too ✨