Your Genitals are Intelligent
Your yoni & your cock are deeply intelligent.
Your yoni’s lack of lubrication in any given moment is intelligent.
Even when you think you want him to penetrate you.
Your cock’s lack of erection in any given moment is intelligent.
Even when you’re deeply sexually attracted to her.
Getting initiated into the wisdom of the body is about surrendering your programmed agenda & mental expectations to an intelligence far beyond the mind.
We access this intelligence by listening deeply to the body, to your yoni, to your cock, and TRUSTING it.
Trusting that your yoni/cock is an oracle.
Lack of lubrication or lack of erection is NOT an indication that something is wrong with you.
Of course in more extreme health cases, there may be an exception.
But these types of "explanations" are used wayyyyy too frequently.
As a rule, your yoni/cock is a barometer.
When I have been with men who are used to getting super erect with ease and suddenly when he is with me he experiences “difficulties” - this has literally always been because on some level my yoni is still saying no to him.
His cock knows this. His mind often does not.
When my heart is safe and my yoni is a full yes, his cock responds to that.
The feminine leads. She invites. He responds to this invitation.
So next time you are wondering what’s “wrong” with you in this scenario, look deeper, feel deeper.
On the other side of your frustration & expectations is a deep well of connection & bliss that can only be accessed when you align with your bodily intelligence.