Pussy Knows the Way to Pleasure
My experience is that with INTERNAL vaginal pleasure, the more I force, the less pleasure I experience.
This is a bit different from the clitoris because I find I can stimulate the clit into orgasm with very little attunement to subtle energies.
But your relationship to the inside of your yoni DEEPLY reflects your relationship to the universal feminine.
If you are in the habit of forcing and pushing your agenda, without being attuned to the intelligent resistance & guidance the universe is giving you, then you are not really in a co-creative relationship with the feminine.
When we learn to LISTEN to the subtle energies of our body and especially our yoni, we are literally learning how to align with the universal feminine intelligence.
Your yoni will guide you (and your lover) into love's deepest bliss, IF you unconditionally honour her.
She knows the way to pleasure & orgasm.
But you are required to die many deaths (of the small self) in order to get there.
Because she will guide you down the path of total unknown.
Where your only "safety" is being immersed in the present moment and LISTENING to how you are being guided.
Trusting & surrendering to the feminine (within yourself, and all that is) completely...
Basically when you learn to listen to your yoni (i.e. where & how SHE wants to be touched, when SHE wants to be penetrated, etc) you will simultaneously learn how to access the universe's guidance.