Surrender Comes From Safety
You’ve probably heard that what makes the feminine attractive is her capacity for surrender.
Many teachers speak to this but many DON’T talk about the journey required to access true surrender.
If you’re simply trying to force yourself to open, relax, & surrender, you are more than likely just violating your own boundaries.
You can’t force surrender.
In fact, the deepest surrender is sometimes about ACCEPTING the resistance.
Honouring the part of yourself that does NOT want to surrender.
Because surrender comes from SAFETY.
And if you have not cultivated this safety within yourself through the cultivation of your *inner masculine*,
Your capacity for surrender will be minimal.
Many women desire a man with deep presence to hold a safe container for them so that they CAN feel safe to surrender,
And yet the men you attract into your life will ALWAYS reflect the depth of your own inner masculine.
WHAT IS THE INNER MASCULINE?
It’s your capacity to be unwaveringly present to chaos (in your inner AND outer world)
It's your capacity to pierce your own thoughts, stories, & patterns with the light of pure awareness to see them for what they really are.
It’s your capacity to TRUST yourself. Not trusting that nothing painful will ever happen to you, but knowing deeply that you will be OK.
And it's your capacity to draw FIRM boundaries and honour yourself, without withdrawing the love.
This inner cultivation makes it safe for you to rest in your FEMININE.
Independent of who or what is going on in the outside world.
And in this deep resting, not only will you ATTRACT the masculine presence you desire,
But you won’t be frustrated AF, longing to be polarized into your feminine but feeling powerless to get there without a fantasy man to take you.
As always, it starts with you ❤️✨