Relationships are about Compromise: True or False?

 

"Relationships are about compromise" is a belief that has led generations of people to overstep themselves & expect others to do the same in the name of being a good person/partner/friend.⁠

This belief disconnects us from the truth of the body and causes us to *analyze* whether something is "acceptable" or not.⁠

And when this belief is running unconsciously, it will disrupt the clarity with which you can SENSE your truth.⁠

Because you hold the unconscious belief that it is NECESSARY to settle.⁠

Or to have your boundaries crossed.⁠

So of course, if you hold this belief, you will experience a reality where your relationships ARE about compromise...⁠

Because that's the reality you accept.⁠

This underground pattern of "settling" plays out in relationship to money, purpose, & business too.⁠

"You can't have everything you want."⁠

Again, what you accept is what you receive.⁠

If you have trouble identifying your YES/NO when it comes to relating, business opportunities, etc, it can be useful to recognize whether this belief is operating on some level.⁠

It's hard to discern your "no" when there's another voice saying "but this might be as good as it gets..."⁠