The Art of Cock Worship
Worshipping cock can be a divine expression of inner truth & creativity.
It is soul-nourishing medicine for the receiver, but also the worshipper (giver).
It allows the receiver to feel seen, honoured, appreciated, and ultimately to open to deep pleasure as his essence and consciousness is recognized & celebrated.
Worshipping cock can also be a healing, pleasurable experience for the giver, as they allow themselves to be energetically penetrated & opened to love in the process.
When it comes to blow jobs, hand jobs, massage, lovemaking, and other intimate exchanges, I realized something early on...
Regardless of the various techniques I experimented with, I noticed that it never seemed to be these physical techniques that made a big difference in how the man responded.
It was something else...
Over & over, I noticed how when I deeply desired a man & his cock, this "desire" activated something to him.
When I was in a state of surrendered pleasure whilst “giving”, his pleasure deepened, too.
I noticed that the way I felt is what most strongly impacted how he felt...
Have you ever been with a man who says he doesn't really like blow jobs, or never climaxes from them?
I've encountered multiple men who, at first, claim that they just don't really enjoy receiving oral.
Yet even from these men, I continue to receive feedback that I give amazing blow jobs that are somehow "different" than all of the blow jobs they've received before.
The secret?
It's all about how I FEEL while I do it.
The way you feel provides a transmission and sets the tone for your lover. This cannot be faked or compensated for by any technique.
The FEELING you connect to while pleasuring a man is actually the basis of cock worship.
And the most potent feeling you can transmit is the authentic adoration of the man & his cock.
The cock is the extension of the man.
And when you truly, fully adore the man - you naturally adore his cock.
The Art of Cock Worship is all about letting this adoration & deep desire for him guide your body.
It's about allowing yourself to be overcome with pleasure & devotion.
And allowing yourself to express this all-encompassing feeling to him through the transmission of your body.
I will say it again - you cannot fake this feeling, it must be authentic.
Worshipping cock in this way is not common, and it is not easily accessed by everyone.
It requires that:
1) You are deeply connected to your own desires. You must know yourself, your body, & your pussy - and be committed to unconditionally honouring the current of truth that flows through your own body. If you are disconnected from yourself, you cannot be deeply connected to him and his cock.
2) You can uphold your own boundaries. Which means that you only do something when you want to. You don't do things for approval, out of obligation, or because you feel pressure to. You can also stop & address something that doesn't feel right to you, as it arises in the moment. You are never doing him or yourself any “favours” by overriding your own boundaries.
3) You can allow yourself to be seen. It takes a confident, powerful woman to first allow herself to feel her deep longing & desire for a man, and then to allow HIM to witness & experience this in her. It is vulnerable! Cock worship is about owning what you feel while at the same time being soft in your ability to actually reveal what you feel.
4) You actually do adore the man. Part of mastering the Art of Cock Worship is authenticity. The experience loses its potency as soon as you pretend to adore him if, deep down, you don't.
5) You have met yourself deeply. The depths of appreciation, pleasure, & love you can transmit to him through your body are shaped by the depths you have gone to within yourself. This is especially impacted by your relationship to your own eros, pleasure, and pussy. Which is why I recommend that women who desire to be exceptional at worshipping cock are exceptionally connected to their pussy.
6) You have the ability to SEE him on a deeper level & to worship that deeper essence within him. Again, this is a reflection of your own inner cultivation. Do you have “eyes to see” the divine masculine essence within him? For many women, arriving at this place can be a journey of dissolving disrespectful frames and lenses through which they see men & the masculine, which have often formed in response to unresolved feminine pain. Yet when you can authentically see & celebrate the divinity in him, you will evoke more of it!
And this is just the beginning.
There are factors that influence cock worship that extend deep into your relationship with your own sexuality as the cock “worshipper.”
But here's another key:
When a woman rests in true adoration & devotion to her man, she also experiences a deep desire to be penetrated by him.
Not just physically - but energetically.
When worshipping cock, whether it's with your mouth, hands, or entire body - notice the desire to receive the man inside you.
This energetic "welcoming" of him into your body is a form of worshipping him. Opening to him.
Allow your adoration of him to open you. Let it inspire your desire to RECEIVE him.
And feel the pleasure of receiving the potency of his consciousness.
Notice how you can actually receive while giving.
And that your enjoyment of receiving him is in turn, deeply pleasurable for him.
Again - this can be with your mouth, hands, yoni, body, or even just your energy as you sit in his presence.
This is the state you must enter to give a truly epic penis massage.
You move & touch him in a way that actually feels really good for you.
This is not about disconnecting from him, where you use his body solely for your own pleasure & disregard his experience...
It's not about objectifying or using him.
It's about feeling him at the core of who he is, and allowing your authentic awe of him open you in a way that you WANT to be of service to him.
You WANT to pleasure him because it simultaneously pleasures you on a soul-nourishing level.
This is the frequency behind cock worship that nourishes and heals BOTH of you in the process…
Courtney xx
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