The Art of Cock Worship

 

I recently released a story on Instagram about my day of lovemaking & the penis massage I gave.

The response was overwhelmingly enthusiastic and many of you messaged me wanting to know more about it.

I talked briefly on my IG story about how to give a penis massage.

But then I talked about how to REALLY give a penis massage (hehe).

Which has much more to do with the subtle energetics of giving the massage than the physical massage itself.

I'm talking about Cock Worship.

Which is not something you physically DO, it's more about the state of being you embody. 

In my next post I'm going to talk about how to give an epic penis massage that opens & relaxes your partner's body, helps him feel safe to receive, is super pleasurable, AND sets the stage for incredible lovemaking... (read it here).

But in this blog I'm going to talk about what you need to master first if you want to give an epic penis massage.

The Art of Worshipping Cock

It is truly an art...

Worshipping cock is a divine expression of inner truth & creativity.

It is soul-nourishing medicine for the receiver, but also the worshipper (giver).

It allows the receiver to feel seen, honoured, loved, & ultimately to open to deep pleasure as his true divinity is recognized.

And worshipping cock is pure medicine for the giver, as they allow themselves to be energetically penetrated & open to more love.

(NOTE: As I wrote this blog post, I realized I could literally create an entire course on the art of cock worship... so it is full of value that I will likely charge for in the future, AND yet it is also just an introduction).

When it comes to blow jobs, hand jobs, sex, & whatever else, I realized something quite early on...

I could swirl my tongue like this, massage like that, or engage my pelvic floor in all sorts of ways to try & pleasure a man,

But I noticed that it never seemed to be these techniques that made a big difference in how a man responded to me pleasuring him.

It was something else...

Over & over, I noticed how when I really wanted a man & his cock, this "wanting" did something to him.

I noticed that the way I felt is what most strongly impacted how he felt...

Have you ever been with a man who says he doesn't really like blow jobs, or never orgasms from them?

I've encountered multiple men who, at first, claim that they just don't really enjoy receiving head. 

Yet even from these men, I continue to receive feedback that I give amazing blow jobs that are somehow "different" than all of the blow jobs they've received before.

The secret?

It's all about how I FEEL while I do it.

The way you feel provides a transmission to your lover that cannot be faked or compensated for by any technique.

The FEELING you connect to while pleasuring a man is actually the basis of cock worship.

The feeling I'm talking about is the authentic adoration of the man & his cock.

The cock is the extension of the man.

And when you truly, fully adore the man - you naturally adore his cock.

The art of cock worship is all about letting this adoration & deep desire for the man to take over your body.

It's about allowing yourself to literally be overcome with adoration.

And allowing yourself to express this all-encompassing feeling of adoration towards him.

I will say it again - you cannot fake this feeling, it has to naturally arise.

And truly being able to worship cock in this way is not easy for everyone.

It requires that you:

1) Are deeply connected to your own desires. You need to know yourself, your body, & your pussy - and be committed to unconditionally honouring your truth. If you are disconnected from yourself, you cannot be deeply connected to his cock.

2) Can uphold your own boundaries. Which means that you only do something when you want to. You don't do things for approval or because you feel pressure to. You can also stop & address something that doesn't feel right to you, as it arises in the moment. Don't kid yourself - you are never doing him or you any favours by dismissing your own boundaries.

3) Can be vulnerable & allow yourself to be seen. It takes a confident, powerful woman to first allow herself to feel deep longing & desire for a man, and then to allow HIM to see this desire in her. It's vulnerable, & cock worship is about owning what you feel while at the same time being soft in your ability to actually reveal what you feel.

4) Actually do adore the man. This is sort of a no-brainer. Part of mastering the art of cock worship is authenticity. It loses its potency as soon as you pretend to adore him if - deep down, you don't.

5) Adore yourself. The extent of adoration & love you can feel for the man reflects how much you've cultivated this within yourself. When you experience the vibration of deeply loving & adoring yourself, you can transmit this to another person.

6) Have the ability to SEE him on a deeper level & to worship that deeper essence within him. This is actually a reflection of your own connection to your inner masculine. When you can connect to the divine masculine essence within yourself, you can see it & bring it out in a man.

And this is just the beginning.

There are factors that influence cock worship that extend deep into your relationship with your own sexuality - as the cock worshipper.

But here's another key:

When you are in true adoration of the man, this comes with a DEEP desire to be penetrated by him.

Not just physically - but energetically.

When worshipping cock, whether it's with your mouth, hands, or entire body - notice the desire to have the man inside you.

This energetic "welcoming" of him into your body is a form of worshipping him. Opening to him.

Allow your adoration of him to open you. Let it inspire your desire to RECEIVE him.

And feel the pleasure of receiving his true essence.

Notice how you can actually receive while giving.

And that your enjoyment of receiving him is deeply pleasurable to him.

Again - this can be with your mouth, hands, yoni, body, or even just your energy as you sit in his presence.

This is the state you must enter to give a truly epic penis massage.

You move & touch him in a way that actually feels really good for you.

This is not about disconnecting from him, where you use his body solely for your own pleasure & disregard his heart...

It's not about objectifying or using him.

It's about feeling him at the core of who he is, and allowing your authentic awe of him open you in a way that you WANT to be of service to him.

You WANT to pleasure him because it simultaneously pleasures you on a soul-nourishing level.

Just writing about this is turning me on...

Are you feeling me??

If yes, check out the next post which has the juicy details on penis massage. (Read it here).

Courtney xx

P.S. My cock worship skills are deeply rooted in my sexual self-connection. The only reason I am able to feel men on a deeper level (even when they cannot feel themselves), is because I have cultivated this depth within myself.

(This too, of course, is an ever-deepening journey).

Worshipping cock is not something I need to consciously think about - it arises naturally due to my attunement to my own body & sexual energy.

This is ever-deepening and is a journey that is accessible to all women. If you are ready to take a deep dive into yourself to unleash your sexual pleasure & power, join me in my online course Viva La Vagina. Reduced payment plans are now available. Learn more here.

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