Black obsidian is a volcanic stone formed through rapid cooling of lava, embodying the raw, untamed energy of the Earth. Its unique molecular structure allows it to act as a mirror, helping you access deeper truths about your desires and blockages. Unlike softer, porous crystals, Obsidian’s smooth, glass-like composition makes it non-porous and ideal for intimate use with proper care. The stone's benefits include:

• Removing trauma
• Clearing negative energy
• Psychic protection
• Acts as a protective shield, creating a barrier against negativity and providing a sense of safety and defense
• Protection from negativity
• Balances base chakra (root chakra)
• Releasing resentment from others and fear
• Stimulating the gift of prophecy
• Removing negative attachments that have built up in your aura
• Removing emotional blockages

The Pleasure Wand is designed to internally sensually massage the yoni (vagina). Try using your wand in the following ways:

• Use for solo or partner play
• Slowly move the wand in & out of your yoni, bringing your awareness to the subtle sensations you experience as you do this
• Gently massage the cervix with light pressure & deep breathing
• Angle the wand to stimulate your g-spot for pleasure (best to do this with curved pleasure wands)
• Massage your belly & inner thighs with the wand (this can be very pleasurable!)
• Play with temperature by running your wand under hot or cold water first (careful not to drop it in the sink!)
• Watch this video
• Hold your wand to your heart, visualize infusing it with a loving intention—then insert the wand into your yoni and visualize that intention radiating into your yoni & womb

The Slim Style Pleasure Wand is recommended for women who experience vaginal pain, tension, &/or tightness. It is also recommended for women who prefer slimmer penetration, or those who feel instinctively apprehensive about the size of the Traditional Style. Your body & intuition know best, so if you feel drawn to the Slim then trust that inner call.

The Traditional Style Pleasure Wand is our most popular wand size. It is recommended for women who prefer a “fuller” feeling &/or those who enjoy a “girthier” dildo or cock.

There is no “wrong” wand to begin with. As always, notice how your body instinctively responds to the Slim versus Traditional. Which style excites you the most?

Clears Energy Stagnation in the Body

The massage wand’s tapered design helps you access hard-to-reach areas, encouraging circulation and clearing the body of energetic debris that may accumulate in the pelvic bowl. Regular use supports the release of stagnant emotions, such as unexpressed anger or fear, while allowing access to feelings of clarity and empowerment.




Exploration of Sensuality

The pleasure wand’s design provides an intimate way to explore your sensual landscape, connecting you to your body’s rhythms and cues. This self-knowledge not only enhances personal pleasure but informs what you desire and deserve in partnered intimacy and other areas of life.




Grounding Through Touch

Obsidian’s natural density provides a grounding weight that encourages you to slow down and tune into your physical sensations. Often mined in Brazil, black obsidian is renowned for its skin purification and relaxation benefits. Its grounding effect serves as a counterbalance to anxious or scattered mental states, bringing focus to your erotic and emotional experience.




Supports Emotional Release

Stored tension in the pelvic floor or throughout the body often correlates with unprocessed emotions. This wand can be used as a tangible tool for releasing these tensions, inviting emotional breakthroughs and a sense of renewal.




Versatility for Whole-Body Use

While designed for intimate purposes, this wand doubles as a body massage tool to target knots, tension points, and areas of discomfort. Its smooth surface glides effortlessly with oil, making it perfect for facial massage to stimulate circulation and brighten the skin. (The Slim style is best for this).

We ship discretely! Nothing on the outside of the parcel indicates that sexual or pleasure-related contents are inside.

Due to the intimate nature of our products, we have a no return policy (no refunds or exchanges) except in the very rare case that the product is damaged upon arrival. In this case, customers should email hello@empoweredwoman.ca immediately and must be able to provide photo evidence of the damaged product. We will then provide an immediate replacement at no extra charge.

We do not take responsibility for instances in which the customer does not receive an order due to entering the incorrect shipping address at checkout. In this case, the customer can re-submit a new order. If the parcel is recovered (i.e. parcel is returned to us due to non-delivery), we will happily re-ship the order provided that the customer completes payment for the additional shipping & handling charges.

If a customer does not receive an order due to the parcel being lost or stolen, we file an investigation with Canada Post. If your tracking number indicates that the parcel has been delivered and you have NOT received it, please contact us at hello@empoweredwoman.ca.

If an order is returned to us (i.e. non-delivery due to customer failure to pay customs charges to the respective company), we will happily re-ship the order provided that the customer completes payment for the additional shipping & handling charges.

We are not responsible for custom fees, duties, or taxes imposed upon international customers. In some cases, the customer may be required to pay customs fees to receive the parcel into their country. These charges are unpredictable and are not covered by The Empowered Woman.

Our full shipping & returns policy including processing times can be found here.