Accessing Pleasure Through Acceptance

Your body knows the way to bliss.⁠

Your job is simply to listen and give her FULL PERMISSION to feel & be the exact way she is right now.⁠

Every time you meet your experience with expectation, "should," and preferences for how you'd rather things feel, you block pleasure.⁠

Every time you demand MORE from your body, from this moment, you resist pleasure.⁠

ALL OF THE PLEASURE you desire is available to you in this moment.⁠

And the doorway is complete acceptance of the now.⁠

Which means...⁠
Focus on what you DO feel.⁠
Focus on what's already here.⁠

And if that happens to be nothing,⁠
Or numbness,⁠
Or pain,⁠
Accept that.⁠

We tend to think that we need to fight against the things we don't want in order to change them.⁠

But actually, things change on their own when we can first accept the now.⁠

This doesn't mean accepting "for the next 5 years I will feel this way" (this is a mental projection & is not related to the present moment)⁠

It means accepting that you feel this way RIGHT NOW.⁠

Pleasure is the experience of ALLOWING⁠
And this is why even pain & numbness can be doorways to pleasure & orgasm.⁠

Because when you ALLOW them,⁠

You experience the pleasure that comes from aligning with the now, rather than resisting it.⁠