You Don't Need a REASON to Set a Boundary

 

Hereโ€™s something you will only understand if you EMBODY healthy boundaries in your life: โ 
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๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ง๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐ ๐š ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ญ ๐š ๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐š๐ซ๐ฒ. โ 
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โ€œBecause this is what feels good for meโ€ - is more than sufficient. โ 
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But those who do NOT embody healthy boundaries, will always want a reason. โ 
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They will ask you to explain & INTELLECTUALIZE your boundaries, because this is what theyโ€™ve learned to do. โ 
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โ€œI just donโ€™t understand why you need thisโ€ฆโ€ โ 
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(They feel a need to UNDERSTAND your boundaries, in order to respect them). โ 
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100% fuck that ๐Ÿ™… โ 
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When youโ€™re EMBODIED (connected & living IN your body), your life is not fucking rational. โ 
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You FEEL your boundaries and you HONOUR them. โ 
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End of story. โ 
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Having done a massive amount of work with boundaries at a subtle energetic level, I can say this with certainty: โ 
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๐ˆ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐›๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ฉ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  & ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐š๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ, โ 
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๐–๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐œ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐Ž๐•๐„๐‘๐‘๐ˆ๐ƒ๐„ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐š๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ... โ 
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โ€”> ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ˆ ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ๐ž & ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐š๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ. โ 
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Yes, the sensing is important. โ 
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If you are not attuned to your own body & nervous system, you cannot identify your own boundaries. โ 
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Healthy boundaries are not generated through analysis. โ 
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That is typically just a huge spiritual bypass. โ 
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Boundaries are identified by the body. โ 
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And they are upheld by the unconditional commitment to BELIEVE & TRUST the body. โ 
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When I learned that a boundary is a boundary is a boundary. โ 
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It doesnโ€™t need to be justified or understood. โ 
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It just needs to be respected. โ 
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I could finally respect the boundaries of others. โ 
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Only when you give YOURSELF this kind of radical permission & self-acceptance, can you gift it to others. โ 

I discuss & teach you to develop Embodied Boundaries in depth in The Art of Cock Worship.

 
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