Listen to How the Body Wants to Be Touched

The greatest gift you can give yourself, is to learn how to LISTEN to what your body wants, rather than expecting it to respond to your pre-conceived notions of what pleasure and "good sex" is supposed to be like.⁠

When we release expectations & striving, we become PRESENT to the depth that is here now.⁠

I feel that the easiest way to cultivate this is with yourself, first.⁠

Start exploring self-touch in a way that arises from LISTENING to how your body wants to be touched.⁠

This may begin with simply holding yourself in a big hug.⁠

Or moving your hips slowly to music.⁠

Giving yourself a slow, sensual breast massage.⁠

Or you can place one hand on your heart, one hand over your yoni, and literally ASK your body what kind of touch she wants in this moment 🌸⁠

The magic of slow pleasure, which is what Pleasure Wands are all about, is that we learn to listen & respond, instead of force 💗⁠