Safety & Sexual Blossoming

Learning to create safety for yourself is the key to sexual blossoming.

There is no way around the fact that the feminine only opens when she can TRUST that she is safe.

She opens when she can trust HIM and when she can trust the CONTAINER,

But above all else she opens when she can trust HERSELF.

This has to do with whether you have a history of over-stepping yourself,

Whether you can uphold your boundaries in messy situations,

Whether you force yourself open when your body actually wants to close,

Whether you can say no without needing to justify yourself,

Whether you can listen to what your body wants, rather than imposing what you want from HER.

Experiencing safety in this world as a feminine-essenced being begins with how deeply you honour the feminine within yourself.

When the inner feminine can trust the inner masculine, she can learn to trust an external “other.”

Again this has to do with inner masculine cultivation.

And this also affects the quality of masculine that shows up on the outside.

As we learn to create safety for the inner feminine, we can then recognize the OUTER circumstances & people that offer this same safety.